• Commercials…

    If you’ve had the experience of watching television with me for any length of time at all, then you know that I cannot abide commercials.  Nine times out of ten, I will mute the commercial!  Usually I leave the room for a cup of hot tea or a Sierra Mist or a glass of water – anything just to get away from the commercials.  I am of the opinion that the marketing and advertising professionals today seriously think that we are all stupid or dumb as a post.  Most of the commercials on air today are mindless and annoying.  Some of the commercials actually border on offensive.  The ones that are “supposed” to be funny are usually just annoying.  For example, the Sears commercial that features a young male and female blogger who are trying desperately to get a flight out.  In the midst of a blizzard, they must spend the weekend snowed in at O’Hare or some other airport.  It’s actually just beginning to get interesting when the young lovers fall head over heels over a Sears washer and dryer!  (I mean literally tumbling head first over said washer & dryer!)  Oh, please!

    Okay, having said all that, I actually must give kudos to the Frito-Lay Corporation.  They have a commercial for Tostitos Cantina Chips which actually makes me laugh.  I don’t mute it.  That says a lot.

    Oh, and the chips are delicious!

     

  • Camry crisis…

    I’d love to drive to the nearest Toyota franchise and drive home with a brand new Camry.  That isn’t going to happen.  I’ve joined the ranks of the retired who are “living on Social Security and a very small dwindling nest egg”.  We bought my Camry new in 1999 and have taken very good care of it through the years.  It has needed occasional work from time to time (don’t we all)  but, overall, it has been reliable and “healthy”.

    I had noticed over the past few days that Camry (that’s what I call her) had begun to “run rough”.  I didn’t know what was wrong but I had a suspicion that something was.  It was definitely not time for her appointment for her “new oil, fluids & filter checkup” – not even close.

    This morning, I drove down to the local post-office-station at Dahl’s grocery store to mail my check & income tax return to the IRS.  That didn’t do much for me but I knew it would make the IRS happy.

    I had a few errands that I needed to run after that:  pick up my reserved book at the library, pick up a prescription at the pharmacy and treat myself to a much-needed-haircut.  I pulled out of Dahl’s parking lot and took a right on 50th Street.  I had barely made it into the center lane, when Camry began shaking violently, not picking up any speed at all.  To top it all off, the engine light was flashing and there was a smell!

    As a Registered Nurse since 1978, I’ve calmly handled more than my share of medical crises in the hospital but I’m not a mechanic.  All of a sudden, I did not feel safe and the long string of what-ifs started.  I knew I couldn’t afford a new car.

    I pulled into a nearby “Kum & Go” (like a 7-11 for my Southern friends).  There was no way I could get Camry on the interstate to drive to Firestone but that’s where I needed to go.  An angel disguised as a young man working at Kum & Go, took a look under the hood and checked the fluids.  He said I was almost out of coolant and something else.  I bought some and he took care of putting it in the right place under the hood (not usually a service they provide at Kum & Go!) but said he didn’t think this was the real problem.  There was no way the fluids should have been low.  This indicated something else was wrong.  He suggested to get help soon.  I was.  I offered him a generous tip but he graciously, absolutely refused it.

    By this time, I have my calm, class-act daughter on the cell phone to alert her of the situation and that I might be in need of rescuing.  Also by this time, I’m shedding a few tears…it’s those what-ifs and the uncertain financial future that gets me every time.  In her reassuring way, she tells me we’ll take one problem at the time.  She stays on the phone with me to give me directions to Firestone via the “back way” since I can’t go the only way I know – via interstate.  She stays with me until I get to Firestone.  I love my sweet girl!

    Firestone took one look at me and got Camry in right away.   While they went to work diagnosing the problem, I wandered down the strip mall next to where they are located.  I just knew it was going to be expensive.

    First, I went to the pet store.  That always cheers me up – except for the fact that I still cannot have a pet.  Not where I live now.  Eventually, I will be living somewhere that I will have a dog.  Next stop:  Michaels craft store.  It would have been more fun if I had known whether or not I would have any money left to spend!  Next stop:  Gordman’s department store where I bought a thank you card.  I was truly tempted to buy the framed Bible verse in the home department – resting front and center on the middle shelf!  It is one of my favorites:  Romans 8:28.  I said “thank you, Lord, for the subtle reminder”.  By this time, they had called with the diagnosis (I was down to 3 cyclinders and a few other things wrong) estimate:  $460.00!  I said yes of course.  I had no choice.

    After that, I treated myself to a $12 manicure and met a sweet young Vietnamese woman.  She asked where I worked.  I said I was retired.  She smiled and shook her head “no”.  She said she thought I was 50!  She wanted to be sure I understood her, so she wrote the number 50 on a piece of paper.  She either a.) needs glasses or b.) is another angel – disguised as a manicurist.

    An hour or so later, I picked up Camry – who was now feeling her oats and driving like a dream – and headed out to finish my errands.

     

  • Classic movies…

    Sometimes I think I was born a couple of decades too late.  I love the classic movies set during the forties and fifties…all depicting life as we will never know it.  Drama, mystery, romance, romantic comedy, film-noir, the suspense of a WWII movie set in Berlin…all a different time and place coming to life in timeless black & white.

    I enjoy a step back in time seeing the vintage homes and furnishings.  I love the fashions of the forties and fifties.  I remember as a small child my older sisters wearing just such ensembles.   I’ve slowly gathered a classic movie collection.  Granted most are in VHS, so I must keep a VHS player that works!  It’s not an impressive collection…but large enough that, at a moment’s notice, I can enjoy an evening with Jimmy Stewart, Cary Grant, Claudette Colbert, Clark Gable, Katherine Hepburn, Spencer Tracy and Jean Arthur among others.  These are movies that have stood the test of time.  These are actors who have set the standard against which today’s actors measure their performances.

    I began this post with the idea of choosing my ten favorites.  Impossible.  Let’s just say the following are among my favorites.  If you haven’t seen them, check them out from your local library or video store and spend an enjoyable evening with a few legends…

    • Rear Window (1954)  with Jimmy Stewart and Grace Kelly.  Director:  Alfred Hitchcock.
    • Spellbound (1945) with Ingrid Bergman and Gregory Peck.  Director:  Alfred Hitchcock.
    • Vertigo (1958)  with Jimmy Stewart and Kim Novak.  Director:  Alfred Hitchcock.
    • Rebecca (1940) with Laurence Olivier and Joan Fontaine.  Director:  Alfred Hitchcock.
    • North by Northwest (1959) with Cary Grant and Eva Marie Saint.  Director:  Alfred Hitchcock.
    • The Talk of the Town (1942) with Cary Grant and Jean Arthur.  Director:  George Stevens.
    • It Happened One Night (1934) with Cary Grant and Claudette Colbert.  Director:  Frank Capra.
    • It’s a Wonderful Life (1946) with Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed.  Director:  Frank Capra.
    • Christmas in Connecticut (1945) with Barbara Stanwyck and Dennis Morgan.  Director:  Peter Godfrey.
    • The Ghost and Mrs. Muir (1947) with Gene Tierney and Rex Harrison.  Director:  Joseph L. Mankiewicz.
    • Suspicion (1941) with Cary Grant and Joan Fontaine.  Director:  Alfred Hitchcock.
    • Roman Holiday (1953) with Gregory Peck and Audrey Hepburn.  Director:  William Wyler.
    • Laura (1944) with Gene Tierney and Dana Andrews.  Director:  Otto Preminger.

     

    I found the following clips below on  YouTube.  The Talk of the Town with Cary Grant is one of my all-time favorites.  Watch these short clips and I think you’ll want to see the rest of it!  😉

     

  • A windy Sunday afternoon…

    I enjoy having my daughter and her family over for lunch after church on Sundays every other Sunday or so (although tomorrow I’m going over there!).  It’s a bit of an endeavor in that my sweet son-in-love and my oldest grandson must trek down to my basement storeroom and bring up two extra dining chairs, but they don’t seem to mind.  My daughter and her youngest two children were with me when I chose the dining furniture and my young granddaughter informed me that “it had to be able to seat all of us”!  This round table has a hidden leaf which comes out to convert the table into an oval.  There is plenty of room for all of us!

    The last Sunday they were over was Easter and it was such fun.  My daughter brought their Easter baskets and we hid the colorful filled baskets for them to find before lunch inside the apartment.  The apartment is only 1200 sq. feet but we still managed to hide them successfully.  The three youngest grandchildren stay behind with me for several hours after their Mom and Dad return home.  Their older brother usually has to study so he returns home as well.

    That afternoon, we worked on art projects with my granddaughter’s new fairy design set.  They love exploring the apartment and found my old costume jewelry and other “treasures”.  My 9 year old granddaughter fell in love with my Mother’s locket…her maternal great-grandmother.  She wanted my photo in it and we found one that fit.  I know that she will take good care of it.  Now, she wears my photo around her neck!  My 13 year old granddaughter found some treasures that she wanted to take home with her as well.  It amazes me that, at this young age, they realize that sentimental treasures aren’t always about monetary value.

    Later, we decided to go for a walk but realized that their coats were in their car which was now at their home!  We improvised and they all wore one of mine – including my 4 year old grandson…which was a funny sight!  We headed out for our walk and, too late, realized that it was so cold and WINDY!  No one, including me, had a hat on and how I wished for one.  We walked down to the park next to the the nearby elementary school.  They played for a while on the jungle gym, then we headed back to my apartment for warm apple cider and a snack before I drove them home.

    I love that, the very next morning, my daughter said that my nine year old granddaughter asked when she “could see Grandmom again”!

    Chilly and WINDY Sunday afternoon and we were walking to a nearby park. They’re all wearing one of my jackets…including my 4 year old grandson! 😉

     

  • Memories of Bill…

    December 1, 1943 –  April 10, 2006

    We are souls living in bodies.  Our bodies grow old, but our souls never die.  Seven years ago, you went to Heaven.  While you are no longer on this earth, your spirit lingers on in the lives of our three amazing children.  You would be so proud of them.  They are strong, loving, successful.  They are giving and devoted spouses.   They are loving, remarkable, wonderful parents.

    They are happy.

    Our grandchildren are treasures.  I tell them about you often.  I tell them “Granddad stories”.   I wish you could have lived long enough to have met the youngest ones.  They will hear Granddad stories too.  I see so much of you in our children and, now, in the grandchildren.  No doubt, they will have your drive and your competitive streak.  They are all athletic like you.  They’re artistic like both of us.  You would love hearing them play the piano and the violin.

    Our grandchildren are incredible blessings and bring me such joy.

    From time to time, I do see a mischievous grin on their faces and I know just where that came from…

    Love always,

    Dianne

    Matching shirts in the early seventies…
    Our two older children…fifteen & a half months apart.  Joyful, busy days for a young Mom and Dad.  Here they are coloring before bedtime in our son’s “cowboy & Indian” room…
     
    late eighties at Vanderbilt University…our little cowboy grew up
    Glacier National Park and a week of backpacking…

     

    Daddy and Daddy’s girl

     

    Graduation day…Mississippi College
    Wearing her Dad’s Heroes shirt…

     

    Our youngest little bundle of forever joy…

     

    Taking a break from playing frisbee by the street lights…

    Graduation day at Indiana University…

    Our firstborn grandchild helping Granddad paint…

    Granddad talking to our daughter’s oldest two children…
    Granddad and our firstborn grandchild. At Scott and Amy’s wedding in Memphis…

     

    Granddad holding our daughter’s daughter…

     

    2004…Granddad holding our daughter’s baby girl.

     

    Granddad holding our firstborn’s firstborn…

    Playing doll clothes with our older son’s firstborn on a visit to Memphis.

     

    Granddad and our older son’s baby girl…they had been playing doll clothes and dolls in the floor with Granddad. We celebrated her second birthday that week.

     

    GrandDad, Great-Grandmom, our older son and his daughters…

     

    My three sisters and Bill on a visit when we lived in Terre Haute, Indiana. Sad to think that three of them are now in Heaven. My sister (second from right) and I remain behind on this earth…

     

    (L to R) Penny (Bill’s sister), Bobbie (Bill’s late Mom) and Bill. This was taken on one of their fun visits to Terre Haute.
    A fun photo taken at Silver Dollar City in Missouri.
    This is actually my favorite pic of the two of us…
  • Fifty years ago and a convertible…

    It was a beautiful day in Memphis…May 1963.  We had just graduated from high school, and from the smiles on our faces, we were happy about that.  We all piled into this Morris Minor convertible and someone snapped the photo…magically capturing a moment in time.

    There were applications for college or other plans for futures already set in place.  There were over 200 of us in that graduating class.  I made it to the 10th and 20th KHS reunions, but most of my classmates I would never see again.  I wasn’t aware of that sad fact on this happy day above.

    Fifty years ago there were no computers as we know today, no internet, no email and most of us didn’t have automobiles.  We used the telephone to call one another as soon as we walked home from school to talk about our day.  Nevermind, we had just seen one another an hour or so before.  We were all great students with good grades.  We were in the Honor Society, Student Council, Talon yearbook staff and different other extracurricular activities.  We did a lot of things as groups – like roller skating on Friday nights.  We all loved roller skating!  I can still remember the thrill of skating fast in the roller rink to the sounds of the 50’s and 60’s rock and roll!  I loved skating backwards.  I would love to try roller skating again with my grandchildren…but somehow, fifty years later, I’m afraid I’d break a hip!

    Most of our mothers sewed our clothes and we all had great wardrobes.  To school we wore saddle oxfords and penny loafers (usually with white socks) or flats.  On Sundays, we wore “high heels” with hosiery.  By the time we were in college, the heels were really high and were called “spikes”!  Not as high as the platform “stilletos” today but definitely high heels.  Oh funny things, memories…

    I saw this photo for the first time yesterday on Facebook (shared by a friend in my KHS class and used with her permission).  The memories came flooding in.  You may think you have forgotten something but you haven’t.  Those memories are still there…just layered over with years and years of other memories in time.

    In case you can’t tell which one I am in the photos.  In the automobile, I’m the one standing up.  Photo below:  second from right.  😉